So I searched the forums and found other people with similar problems, but running older versions—and I didn't find a solution.
Whenever i update a page, the page's parent disappears from my TopNav. I have to go Theme Settings>Navigation and drag/drop the parent back into the TopNav area every single time I update any page. This becomes extremely annoying and tedious!! I'm wasting a ton of time having to constantly do this.
I am running BF v220.127.116.11, WP V2.9.2 and running a child css theme (that literally only has a custom body bg and dropcap).